My cat does not want to be held.

He wants to crawl over me.

He wants to headbutt my face.

He wants to stand in locations where my holding him is the only way he'd be able to be stable without using claws.

But he does not want to be held.

(He also wants headpats. :sockethead: :blobcatpats:)

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