widower, holidays, "keeping busy" 

There's always highs and lows with grief, and over time the lows generally get better and further apart, but lately they've been deeper and more frequent.

I've been told this is normal around holidays, but I've usually distracted myself with one project or another and right now I'm between projects.

All my D&D campaigns have ended, the new ones haven't started, and my "refurbish my computer lab" project is on hold until more computers arrive.

widower, holidays, "keeping busy" 

@crash If I can help at all, I'm here.

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